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Remembering Our Class Advisor
 
 

Ms Helen Elliot
March 30, 1922  ~  January 10, 2010

Helen Elliot passed away very peacefully Sunday, January 10, 2010 at 10:20 PM. She was surrounded by family and was able to remain in her Orleans home until the very end as she would have liked it. Helen was very proud of being an educator and kept every Ramapo yearbook, including that of your 1958 class, on the coffee table. She was, up until the very end, active in running the senior center for Orleans and counseling seniors on insurance issues. In many ways, Helen never thought of herself as old and never asked for sympathy or help for herself, even when she was gravely ill."

"Helen graduated from Douglas College and Columbia University, and joined the Navy in WWII as a WAVE Lieutenant. She was one of 4 siblings who served our country in WWII and one of the first female naval officers, who at the time were classified as WAVEs. She was stationed in Boston at the Boston Navy Yard and was subsequently sent to Harvard and MIT to study physics. With her science background, she participated in the development of the then secret Navy radar systems that ultimately helped win the war. After the war, Helen received her teaching certificate and taught science at Ramapo HS until she retired. Helen bought a house on Cape Cod in 1972 and has lived there full time since retiring. She was a very special lady and influenced generations of our family to focus on education and family. In all, Helen always considered herself 'a teacher and nothing special'. We always considered her a teacher and very special."

Helen will be cremated and her ashes placed with her brothers and mother in NJ as per her wishes. If anyone cares to donate anything in her name, she was always passionate about education and helping people of all races, gender and social status."

Miss Elliot taught at Ramapo for 22 more years after we graduated. She retired in 1980 to her home at the Cape. She soon got involved in volunteer activities. Eleven years later she was named Orleans Senior Citizen of the Year. She said that she was sure it was due to the “Ramapo Class of 58’s influence. I learned from you that nothing is impossible.”

Helen also volunteered in a thrift shop to support EMT’s training, and was a SHINE counselor for Elder Services of Massachusetts. She held office hours at the Senior Center and made house calls for the home bound.

A celebration of Helen’s life was held at the Federated Church in Orleans, May 1, 2010 at 2:00 PM.


 
 

 

September, 2008

To the Class of 1958:

Fifty plus years ago, Dave Ross asked me to be advisor to your class. I was a relatively young teacher, but smart enough to know when the Principal 'asks' you immediately say, "I'd be delighted!"

I hadn't a clue what a class advisor was supposed to do, so I decided to wing it and hope for the best. As I look back, how blessed I was for I soon realized I was among a most unusual bunch of kids! Through your excitement, your enthusiasm, your belief that no problem was unsolvable, you collectively and individually walked into my heart.

I think I spent more time in Mr. Ross' office than I did in the Physics Lab. Called in so many times to explain "What is the Class of '58 up to now?" To explain why a prom required three layers of papers, lights, netting attached to the gym ceiling. This almost caused Ray Rigg a heart attack! Called in to explain why was I, a TEACHER, on top of closed bleachers decorating for the kids' prom?!! As you may remember, that little incident landed me in Valley Hospital. Called in also to explain why we sold almost raw hot dogs at football games - and had the nerve to charge 30 cents apiece! So many memories!

There are many joys in teaching, but none greater than knowing students beyond the classroom, beyond textbooks, beyond class bells. That is the joy you gave to me, and I am forever grateful.

Sincerely and with special love,
Your "classmate",

 


 

 

A Memorial Service for our class advisor, Ms. Helen Elliot, was held on May 1 in Orleans, Massachusetts. Three people from our class were able to attend, Barbara Collins Steenstra, Jane Meyer Lee, and Ernie Spicer. During the service, a framed picture and plaque was given to the family, depicting the class gift given in Ms. Elliot's memory. Some of Ms. Elliot's family members attended Ramapo High and were most pleased to meet some of the class. They mentioned that the Class of 1958 was always special to Helen, since this was the first class that she advised, and some of the antics the class pulled made her sure that she would have to return to Paterson to stay in teaching. However, Ms. Elliot always said that she learned a lot from the class.
 


Memorial Photos & Plaque

A memorial slide show, prepared by Helen's nephew, can be viewed by clicking the link below. NOTE: This file is approximately 56 Mb, so if you do not have a high-speed Internet connection, you probably don't want to try viewing this.

View Slideshow

Also, we have received the following letter from Helen's niece.

Dear Members of the Class of '58,

I am writing in response to your overwhelming tribute to our Aunt Helen and your Ramapo high school class advisor, Miss Helen Elliot. I have delayed responding because I haven't been able to come up with words powerful enough to thank you. Miss Elliot (Helen) was a very special lady as you know, but it is astounding that a class of students from 52 years ago felt so strongly about her that you came up with such a wonderful way to memorialize her! She would feel so honored to have a physics laboratory at the Rosary School named in her honor due to your generous donations. It is easy for her family to understand why she always bragged about her Class of "58.

Education was paramount to our aunt; so much so, that she paid for three of her nieces and nephews to graduate from four year private universities. They never would have had the finances to do so. Not bad, on a teacher's salary! So you see, nothing would have pleased her more than your tribute in her memory of supporting education, but especially her passion, physics!

Our family greatly appreciated Jane Lee making the effort to not only attend Helen's memorial as a representative of your class, but she spoke passionately about the tribute in Helen's name. We were all very touched.

The framed photos of the students at Rosary High are a wonderful reminder to our family of Aunt Helen and her favorite class.

Go Ramapo Raiders!

Warmly,
Linda Elliot
Class of '66


 
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